I often marvel at the way cycles repeat themselves.
Seasons have distinct qualities, months are punctuated by annual events, and
each passing day is either getting longer or shorter. Clocks, calendars,
holidays, and seasons all serve to remind us that time keeps moving on.
Sometimes we may sit and wonder what life will bring next. Other times, we may
move boldly into the future guided steadfastly by clear objectives. And
sometimes its important to reassess what’s important to us.
Here are a few more thoughts on the matter.
There are so many things to do; I’ll never get them
all done. It takes effort to stay current
with the maintenance part of life. There’s always something that needs to be
cleaned or fixed. If we add up the time we spend working, sleeping, eating,
cleaning, paying bills, and driving here and there, it’s almost enough to
fill every 24 hours.
But there’s so much more I want to do and racing
against the clock is not one of them.
What do I really want to do? What do I want to do
next? Boredom can be a huge problem among
humans; most of us like some amount of variation and excitement. Even when
we are busy, it is easy to feel bored. While being too busy is a problem,
not being busy enough is a different problem.
What’s my next big goal?
Take time to think about the next thing you want to do and write down all of
your thoughts about it. As you bring your thoughts and plans to life in your
mind, you will discover little pockets of time opening up in your schedule
that will move you closer to that new goal.
Decide who you want to play with.
If your goal is to strengthen family bonds, be aware that it is not enough
to simply share a household. Just being married or related to someone is not
sufficient. We must take time to nurture these relationships on a regular
basis. When its time to play, spend it meaningfully with your family or
friends.
Do things that will create memorable experiences.
All close relationships are built upon shared memories. Bonding experiences
strengthen and fortify our important relationships forever.
Even when life feels like a merry-go-round, it’s not
completely automatic. We are always making choices. Take some time to think
about what’s really important to you. You can make changes and you can take
charge of your future.
©Copyright, 2012, Jane R. Rosen-Grandon. All rights reserved.
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